Comments on: The right to love, marry and procreate? http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/ a community of Singaporeans Fri, 10 Feb 2012 06:09:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: hope http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-282813 hope Thu, 19 Jan 2012 00:07:23 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-282813 i earning 2k i a singaporean.My gf earning 2.1k shes holding a wp as she asked her boss to apply s pass but was rejected.So we left with not choice to apply from mom is the chance high?afraid there will cancel her permit? i earning 2k i a singaporean.My gf earning 2.1k shes holding a wp as she asked her boss to apply s pass but was rejected.So we left with not choice to apply from mom is the chance high?afraid there will cancel her permit?

]]> By: Helpless http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-273577 Helpless Fri, 06 Jan 2012 12:20:28 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-273577 I need help to.. I am currently with a Bangladeshi boyfriend and we intend to get married.. But situation doesnt seem to be on our side.. His S Pass application rejected. Can MP really help on this? I need help to.. I am currently with a Bangladeshi boyfriend and we intend to get married.. But situation doesnt seem to be on our side.. His S Pass application rejected. Can MP really help on this?

]]> By: Rosalyn http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-245966 Rosalyn Mon, 10 Oct 2011 13:24:54 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-245966 Hi, i just wanna now if we work permit holder can get married or allowed to marry here in Singapore with a non PR? Hi, i just wanna now if we work permit holder can get married or allowed to marry here in Singapore with a non PR?

]]> By: Alanseah http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-203706 Alanseah Wed, 11 May 2011 21:19:37 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-203706 I have a china girlfriend want to get marriage...but go through mom we can't get approve, because they say my basic salary is too low ???but everyday I have my personal tip around $80 per day...and my basic salary is around $1000 per month...can anyone help me???? I have a china girlfriend want to get marriage…but go through mom we can’t get approve, because they say my basic salary is too low ???but everyday I have my personal tip around $80 per day…and my basic salary is around $1000 per month…can anyone help me????

]]> By: Adrian http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-181028 Adrian Fri, 11 Mar 2011 18:09:28 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-181028 Hi,I got a girlfriend who is holding a wp. I myself is a chef and am getting a $1.7k salary atm. So I guess it is impossible for me to marry her here in SINGAPORE ya? Anybody got any good advice please, I will really appreciate that, thanks a million.. Hi,I got a girlfriend who is holding a wp. I myself is a chef and am getting a $1.7k salary atm. So I guess it is impossible for me to marry her here in SINGAPORE ya? Anybody got any good advice please, I will really appreciate that, thanks a million..

]]> By: Nick http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-176102 Nick Mon, 07 Feb 2011 01:54:49 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-176102 Hi,the exit permit for my girlfriend from China was not suceessful.We are planning for our marry this year at Singapore.How should I do ,to let her come over? Can anyone help? Hi,the exit permit for my girlfriend from China was not suceessful.We are planning for our marry this year at Singapore.How should I do ,to let her come over? Can anyone help?

]]> By: Carol http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-170687 Carol Fri, 10 Dec 2010 18:25:57 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-170687 Hi, is it still so difficult to marry a foreigner? I have been working in china for like 3 years planning to get married with my China Boyfriend and stay in Singapore. I'm in a dilemma as there are many criteria to marry foreigner. Can anyone help? Hi, is it still so difficult to marry a foreigner? I have been working in china for like 3 years planning to get married with my China Boyfriend and stay in Singapore. I’m in a dilemma as there are many criteria to marry foreigner. Can anyone help?

]]> By: siti http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-142742 siti Wed, 28 Apr 2010 03:21:35 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-142742 hi. I jus got the 2nd letter of my husband PR application n still got rejected. after we go to MP n he said 'will write to the ICA n see how'. actuali i dont know wat is the criteria. My husband went for several intrviews all ask for PR. Then if they dont giv PR, how my husband get job? Sum more i heard, if get a work permit n not spass or Epass, wil be vry hard to get PR. I believe that in future, life in sg is harder. I also hv apply new house under BTO but this application i hv to use my bro name to support. N to my surprise my q.no had excess. Im quite disappointed coz I reali wish for new hse to build both of our lives. but if cant, then we hv to rent sum apt. i cnt depend on my bro name coz within tat duration sure 1 day he will ask to remove his name for himself to get married n apply new hse. im a citizen here n my lifes alrdy so difficult. then muz werk part time to support my income. full time job salary not enuf. hi. I jus got the 2nd letter of my husband PR application n still got rejected. after we go to MP n he said ‘will write to the ICA n see how’. actuali i dont know wat is the criteria. My husband went for several intrviews all ask for PR. Then if they dont giv PR, how my husband get job? Sum more i heard, if get a work permit n not spass or Epass, wil be vry hard to get PR. I believe that in future, life in sg is harder. I also hv apply new house under BTO but this application i hv to use my bro name to support. N to my surprise my q.no had excess. Im quite disappointed coz I reali wish for new hse to build both of our lives. but if cant, then we hv to rent sum apt. i cnt depend on my bro name coz within tat duration sure 1 day he will ask to remove his name for himself to get married n apply new hse. im a citizen here n my lifes alrdy so difficult. then muz werk part time to support my income. full time job salary not enuf.

]]> By: milza http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-142647 milza Tue, 27 Apr 2010 16:36:33 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-142647 hi, my name is milza am encoountering a similiar problems here.. am a ex wp who has been banned from sg due to my marriage application and my pregnantcy.i married to singaporean once and end up in divorced. i have a two singaporean sons in my custody.given my mother is a singaporean herself still i can get a pr due to financial satuation.they say in order to have pr you have to work.follow the idea given i was werking under work permit when fell in love with my current boyfriend who is also singaporean. we decide to get married and i call up M.O.M for advice.they told me to submit permission(which take one month for the form to reach) in that waiting period i found myself 1week pregnant was confused and again call up M.O.M for advice. Never once they remind me bout the rules neither inform me bout the consequences.what they say was only submit the application. and they reject my application, revoke my permit and banned when i was 5month pregnant.and till today they keep asking me to keep appealing.now i am all alone in malaysia with my newborn baby.am i am missing my two kids and my family so badly.do you have any ways for my cases to apply at least to get a permission to enter singapore as i badly wants to see my kids? hi,
my name is milza am encoountering a similiar problems here.. am a ex wp who has been banned from sg due to my marriage application and my pregnantcy.i married to singaporean once and end up in divorced. i have a two singaporean sons in my custody.given my mother is a singaporean herself still i can get a pr due to financial satuation.they say in order to have pr you have to work.follow the idea given i was werking under work permit when fell in love with my current boyfriend who is also singaporean. we decide to get married and i call up M.O.M for advice.they told me to submit permission(which take one month for the form to reach) in that waiting period i found myself 1week pregnant was confused and again call up M.O.M for advice. Never once they remind me bout the rules neither inform me bout the consequences.what they say was only submit the application. and they reject my application, revoke my permit and banned when i was 5month pregnant.and till today they keep asking me to keep appealing.now i am all alone in malaysia with my newborn baby.am i am missing my two kids and my family so badly.do you have any ways for my cases to apply at least to get a permission to enter singapore as i badly wants to see my kids?

]]> By: Ali14sg http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-141635 Ali14sg Thu, 22 Apr 2010 01:23:23 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-141635 I think now they control Pr applications.....well dnt give up !!!! I think now they control Pr applications…..well dnt give up !!!!

]]> By: Leong Sze Hian http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-140940 Leong Sze Hian Sat, 17 Apr 2010 10:27:14 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-140940 Good day, Nicely written...my case was the same plight...visa, long term pass and singapore pr denied for my foreign husband...reason being improvement of income... I feel like I am a single mother to our newly born baby boy who is only 6months...and this week is our wedding anniversary and guess what ICA denied his visa.... Lost for words...my 1 year pain and agony with ICA now... <a href="http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/" rel="nofollow">http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/</a>   Cant input the comment website some problem..but it is the best site I have come across...   Michelle Good day,

Nicely written…my case was the same plight…visa, long term pass and singapore pr denied for my foreign husband…reason being improvement of income…

I feel like I am a single mother to our newly born baby boy who is only 6months…and this week is our wedding anniversary and guess what ICA denied his visa….

Lost for words…my 1 year pain and agony with ICA now…
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/
 
Cant input the comment website some problem..but it is the best site I have come across…
 
Michelle

]]> By: Ali14sg http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-133191 Ali14sg Mon, 08 Mar 2010 11:19:04 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-133191 Hi Sweet, Well you can try.....and best of luck !!! Do inform the outcome..... Hi Sweet,
Well you can try…..and best of luck !!!
Do inform the outcome…..

]]> By: sweet http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-132141 sweet Mon, 01 Mar 2010 11:25:00 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-132141 how you think,is that ok?without canceling my wp? how you think,is that ok?without canceling my wp?

]]> By: sweet http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-132140 sweet Mon, 01 Mar 2010 11:23:31 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-132140 hi ali,      we are going to submit our appliction next week,i hope everything will be fine.,i never cancel my permit we just waiting for the result i hope will be fine hi ali,
     we are going to submit our appliction next week,i hope everything will be fine.,i never cancel my permit we just waiting for the result i hope will be fine

]]> By: Ali14sg http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-131958 Ali14sg Sun, 28 Feb 2010 06:56:46 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-131958 No need to cancel S-Pass...just go to ROM. No need to cancel S-Pass…just go to ROM.

]]> By: mon http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-131901 mon Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:40:14 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-131901 they don't even mention about rental flats anymore, you think they actually think about helping the poor? they don’t even mention about rental flats anymore, you think they actually think about helping the poor?

]]> By: mon http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-131896 mon Sat, 27 Feb 2010 22:20:26 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-131896 it is not about voting for change.   it is about voting for progress and improvement. Who in the right mind think pap is doing good for s'poreans? it is all for their own self enrichment. it is not about voting for change.
 
it is about voting for progress and improvement.
Who in the right mind think pap is doing good for s’poreans? it is all for their own self enrichment.

]]> By: nonsense http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-131895 nonsense Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:39:21 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-131895 Now you know why they say Singapore is SOULESS. The government CONTROLS EVERYTHING!...and its people supports it by voting for this punishment each and every time. Who to blame? No balls to vote for change so controlling government keeps people's balls in locked cupboard.  Doomed red dot. Now you know why they say Singapore is SOULESS.
The government CONTROLS EVERYTHING!…and its people supports it by voting for this punishment each and every time. Who to blame? No balls to vote for change so controlling government keeps people’s balls in locked cupboard.  Doomed red dot.

]]> By: fenn http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-4/#comment-131893 fenn Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:29:09 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-131893 It's been awhile since the last post..perhaps everyone's been busy with the recent cny hols and whatnot.  It's been just heartbreaking and mindblowing going through these posts and learning how damn tough it is simply to want to love and live life with a person JUST because his/her nationality differs from yours. Bah. My cousin really wants to marry her fiance who is Thai and working as a chef here earning $2.4k and currently holding an S-pass (he's been here 6 years). She runs a cafe with her sis although the place isn't in her name and thus is wondering how hard would it be for them to marry and him being granted pr-ship. Will he have to cancel his S-pass in order to marry her or can he work and still get married at the same time? Thanks so much and any advice will be totally appreciated! It’s been awhile since the last post..perhaps everyone’s been busy with the recent cny hols and whatnot.  It’s been just heartbreaking and mindblowing going through these posts and learning how damn tough it is simply to want to love and live life with a person JUST because his/her nationality differs from yours. Bah. My cousin really wants to marry her fiance who is Thai and working as a chef here earning $2.4k and currently holding an S-pass (he’s been here 6 years). She runs a cafe with her sis although the place isn’t in her name and thus is wondering how hard would it be for them to marry and him being granted pr-ship. Will he have to cancel his S-pass in order to marry her or can he work and still get married at the same time? Thanks so much and any advice will be totally appreciated!

]]> By: Ali14sg http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-3/#comment-121371 Ali14sg Tue, 15 Dec 2009 01:51:25 +0000 http://theonlinecitizen.com/?p=2839#comment-121371 Hi MistyrieusGerl , Yes you can work on it...but the main topic is your hubby....they want to see how he will provide you when you get pregnant or if you not feeling well..... he must get a job....to prove that he can support you when you are in such situation...i belived they aimed on him...its nothing to do with you...but you still can go for other job...maybe with more income the chances is higher.....Good Luck !!! Hi MistyrieusGerl ,
Yes you can work on it…but the main topic is your hubby….they want to see
how he will provide you when you get pregnant or if you not feeling well…..
he must get a job….to prove that he can support you when you are in such situation…i belived they aimed on him…its nothing to do with you…but you still can go for other job…maybe with more income the chances is higher…..Good Luck !!!

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