Tuesday, June 23, 2009 16:03

Remembering Anthony Yeo

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Terence Lee / Deputy Editor

Anthony Yeo was more than a veteran counselor; he was a social critic and an activist. (Join the Facebook tribute to Anthony Yeo here.)

HE MAY be a leading counselor in Singapore, but he made his mark not just within the profession, but well outside of it.

(Photo: Anthony Yeo was a vocal social critic who often spoke of issues beyond his profession. Courtesy of Jacob George / Creative Commons)

On 20 June 2009, Anthony Yeo passed away due to complications from Leukaemia, leaving behind his brother, wife and children. He was 60 years old. Condolences poured in from all over the Internet, from blogs, websites, and forums.

He was widely known as the “father of counseling”, and is often praised for his passion for the profession, his excellence as a mentor, and as a friend.

Personally, I have yet to speak to him myself. I was supposed to interview him last month for my article on conversion therapy, but I was told me that he was on two weeks of medical leave.

It turns out that I would be forever denied a chance.

We will have to be content with what he has left behind: memories of his advocacy for the rights of homosexuals and for political freedom, and for his critiques of government policy in the form of articles and letters to the forum pages.

Here at The Online Citizen, we will remember him by what he has written:

I would have thought there could be a little more charity in commenting on Chee rather than indulge in augmenting the already prejudicial opinions of this man.

One would have thought that any person regardless of what he does deserves respect and regard for human worth and dignity.

In any case, if you do wish to be better acquainted with what would present as an anti-social disorder, I would gladly assist on the basis of my more than 36 years of psychological work with disturbed people.

Letter to Chua Lee Hoong, criticising her mischaracterisation of Chee Soon Juan.


If we were to stretch the argument further, what is to stop us from importing a whole football team fromBrazil as intimated by a writer of the forum page or any other sporting team from any country just to be winners in international competitions? In similar vein, what would stop other sports from deciding on emulating the table-tennis association?Where do we draw the line?

An article he wrote articulating why we should not feel proud of Singapore’s Olympic success.


I believe what mattered was not whether Mr Wong should have been dismissed or be asked to resign.

What mattered was the need to accept responsibility and apologise unreservedly before seeking to engage in lengthy exposition of the lapses connected with the escape.

In fact, the more explanations were offered, the greater the cognitive dissonance in people, as they had to grapple with information that triggered more questions in their minds.

His thoughts on what Singaporeans went through when Mas Selamat escaped.

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blackfeline
Jun 23, 2009 16:27

he’s a true leader…not afraid to speak his mind…and most importantly…compassionate. None of our so called “leaders”…young or old can measured up!

Gilbert Goh
Jun 23, 2009 16:32

Though I dont know Anthony personally, his name was always heard in the social work circles.

If you want to learn counselling, go to his academy – CAre and Counselling . It is noted for a strict curriculum and tough to clear the practicum.

I also read one of his books on counselling techniques and was impressed that one of our local counsellros had written such a detailed book on counselling. Such books are often written by westerners.

Singapore will miss one of our great influential persons and he will be irreplaceable.

May he rest in peace – farewell Anthony. You have done alot in your life and it is time for rest now. Be with God.

Retiree
Jun 23, 2009 17:10

I have worked with Anthony before during the MI185 incident in Palembang and SQ006 incident in Taipei. He was there to provide counselling services for those who needed them. He was there as our friend,colleague and mentor. I will always remember Anthony Yeo for the rest of my life. May his soul rest in peace.

cynicholas
Jun 23, 2009 20:31

he was truly a cool guy with his guru beard. may he inspire more like him.

David
Jun 23, 2009 20:49

He has indeed done more than many artificial talents who gone by the back door or walk-over during last election. He is one of those vocal alternative voices our msm were trying to shun. When a man like him is gone, Singapore will become a step back until an alternative hero emerges again. I hope his death and JBJ will open up the eyes of many Singaporean – borned here.

Ho Choon Hiong
Jun 23, 2009 20:50

Have only seen him once at a anti-death penalty vigil

may he rest in peace

Zefly (aka Joshua Chiang)
Jun 23, 2009 22:59

Thanks Anthony.

You have shown us all that respect should be earned with humility and compassion, not through position and legislation. :)

Ravi Philemon
Jun 23, 2009 23:39

He was his own man, even in death. My condolences to his family.

patriot
Jun 23, 2009 23:58

Met him once, had a little talk with him, a nice guy.

Rest in Peace Sir !

patriot

andrewong2024
Jun 24, 2009 0:45

Dear Anthony,

Thanks for living your life for others. It was not your career, but your passion and lifestyle to serve people around you.

We salute you!

Andrew Ong

If tomorrow never comes
Jun 24, 2009 10:04

He wrote this book in 1999, when he was age 50.

This was after the silkair crash.

It should be made ‘compulsory reading’ of sorts for all young couples with kids.

Where you have big dreams of fat pay checks,

Children with A* for results, university degrees.

He makes you think – at what price?

Thank you Mr Yeo.

A familyman.

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David
Jun 24, 2009 12:26

At least everyone here remembers Anthony Yeo and JBJ. I don’t recall the name of the golf playing minister who died laden with lard in his heart.and please don’t mention his name though we know he was one of the Jurong GRC forgotten chap.

Upsize the Downsize ?
Jun 24, 2009 12:59

I enjoy his Rebuttal on Chua Lee Hoong’s unfriendly comments on CSJ.

Chua Mui Hoong also is a ‘bombastic’ writer.
Now, new kid on block is Sue-Ann Chia. Watch out for her ‘interesting’ articles.

Jackson Tan
Jun 24, 2009 13:31

I remember a few of his articles that were posted here on TOC, such as the one on Chee Soon Juan. They were well-reasoned and substantiated with his own expertise. His criticisms and rebuttals are sharp and witty but not offensive or insulting. With his passing, the online community in Singapore has lost a great member.

May he rest in peace.

George
Jun 24, 2009 18:12

From one old Victorian to another:
Rest in peace, Anthony.

missing Anthony
Jun 24, 2009 18:20

In the past 12 months or so I have been knocking into him more often in my estate. Sadly we only waved to each other and did not have a chat. Chatted to him twice about 9 years ago.

Anyone has the newspaper article that reported what he said during a dinner function held in his honour several years ago by the counselling or social work committee? I remember he said something to the effect that we should expand our understanding of what a family is by including other forms of family such as homosexual family.

He is such a progressive evangelical Christian and he is well-respected by the local evangelical Christian community :-)

He used to lecture in Trinity Theological College, Singapore, in Pastoral Care & Counselling.

He is reported to have said during this period of illness that he is prepared for Eternal Rest.

Rest well. Anthony, in the hand of God whom you have truly served, by following the example of your Lord Jesus who also helped and sided with the outcasts against the mainstream. Rest well while waiting for your future bodily resurrection to enjoy a renewed creation.

truth hurts
Jun 24, 2009 19:56

If only our political leaders take inspiration from Anthony Yeo,
what it means to serve with passion and honesty.
R.I.P

BS
Jun 24, 2009 22:40

I only saw him once at a seminar and attended his workshop, but was impressed by his direct, straight-to-the-point approach in helping others. He just stood out from others around him. Though I did not know about him before the seminar, I felt a lot of respect for the man. May he rest in peace and may there be more people like him in the helping profession in Singapore.

ACACIA
Jun 25, 2009 10:21

Met him at a resort in JB, he was there with a church group.
He made a lasting impact on the counselling scene.

Rest in peace dear friend.

winstoncheng
Jun 25, 2009 11:19

I wish I had known him but with all the descriptions here, I have, in a way.

It has to be grace of God that empowered men like him to live so selflessly. All of us should aspire to live like that so that at the last breathe, we have no regrets and move on knowing we have done our best for our fellow men.

You may toil and amass material wealth in your lifetime but if your passing is followed by spittings on your grave and family members suing each other, you have failed.

Anthony leaves us with sweet memories and great examples. God Bless You.

Teo Kueh Liang
Jun 25, 2009 15:51

Nowadays, there are very less people who want to speak and dare to speak the truth. Someone who insists and dares to speak the truth is forever being remembered and respected by the people.

EatMoney
Jun 25, 2009 19:34

The ultimate prize in life is to be remembered for the right reasons.
Thank you Anthony Yeo and rest in peace.

Fellow Singaporean
Jun 25, 2009 20:06

We miss you Mr Anthony Yeo.

Your selfless and relentless efforts done for the good of many people and for the good of Singapore will always be remembered.

Please rest in peace.

Fellow Singaporean.

Singaporean
Jun 26, 2009 1:08

Sadly, in Singapore, our leaders do not recognise true local talent like Anthony just because he did not have sterling academic results. But these are the true talents whom Singapore needs. This is further more glaringly visible when I scanned the Straits Times obituary pages for his photos but instead saw the wife of a foreigner being accoladed repeatedly. Who are these people with power and money but not recognising our own true born talents. It is indeed sad that a man who has done so much for Singapore society for free is not as well recognised. My most heartfelt respect and salute for Anthony Yeo. May you rest in peace from your decades of true sacrifice.

Crown of Beauty
Jun 26, 2009 7:41

Even the Christian evangelical community in the Philippines grieve at the homegoing of a dear and beloved brother. He made such a quiet impact upon my humble life, and for this I have written a tribute to him, my own way of acknowledging what God did in my life through Anthony.

We will surely miss him but rejoice in the fact that we will see him again in eternity.

money for nothing
Jun 26, 2009 14:00

Anthony Yeo to me was all about EQ and IQ, something he shared which meant more than monetary wealth.
Not least, he also had guts to question the intentions of a political despot and his stooges.
Rest well, rest in peace.

AngelVision
Jun 26, 2009 19:58

If not for TOC, I would not have known of this great man. Flush ST down the toilet and wish I can flush all the people behind it too.

fairplay
Jun 26, 2009 20:38

25) Singaporean on June 26th, 2009 1.08 am
Dear Singaporean
I too was looking for his obituary but could fine none. I guess he might have given instructions to his family that no publicity be accorded.

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nappys
Jun 28, 2009 0:43

how come such a kind soul in s’pore, helping fellow s’porean doesn’t seems to get much attention from the press or from fellow leaders , even till his death.??

Veronica
Jun 29, 2009 9:56

Anthony Yeo is nothng short of extraordinary. I benefitted from his counselling for over 10 years and he gave me much peace, strength and affirmation in his kind and gentle way. He was truly a gift from God and will be remembered for his great works. May his soul rest in peace.

Jack
Jun 29, 2009 10:58

I don’t know Anthony Yeo personally nor have I ever met him. However, based on his contributions, in volunteerism and in civil discourse, I respect him greatly and am saddened by his passing. There aren’t many Singaporeans like him – unreserved in speaking up for the things that we believe, in a manner that reflects profound kindness and compassion.

Thank you, Anthony Yeo. You have been a bright beacon in our sea of apathy. You will be missed.

AngelVision
Jun 29, 2009 17:04

If Ho Ching can get an award for workers (I do not have a clue what she has done for a single worker) how come Anthony has never been honoured in any way? This man has even written a book on counselling, how many Sporeans can do that? Perhaps Ho Ching should write a book on investment!

winstoncheng
Jun 30, 2009 20:36

Dear AngelVision,

Ho Ching can get all the awards but they are not recognised in heaven : )

Daniel
Jun 30, 2009 20:46

“Ho Ching can get all the awards but they are not recognised in heaven : )”

Why the Lee family ever need another heaven when they already create their own heaven in Singapore and enjoying it every moment of their life ? What important to them is their own heaven not heaven in another life.

Daniel
Jun 30, 2009 20:48

“Perhaps Ho Ching should write a book on investment!”

I waiting for her book entitled “How to lose billions in investment and still live a life of no regret”

I’m sure Warren Buffet and George Soros will be her fans in no time.

nappys
Jul 4, 2009 0:05

hello, think LONG TERM, THINK LONG TERM……..Gov said think LONGGGGG
TERM.. by the time the term comes, i guess all of us is death……
Pls , help us not long term, near term, the time is NOW,,

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