Comments on: Gagged by the church – Foyce Le Xuan

By: Betray, Betrayed

Betray, Betrayed — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 14:39:19 +0000

My husband 46yo, like him, is talented. But both committed adultery repeatedly.
Betrayal is a sin especially in a marriage vow.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

I wonder how much is a glass / bottle of Erdinger Weissbier?
When my ex-husband-to-be Jude Seah, emailed on his plight of being jobless, homeless, and roofless, I agreed to offset the latest sum of $16,xxx accumulated o/s family expenses owed to me and also reduce the family maintenance fee to $1000 for me and 2 kids. He told the lawyer and in the email that he “wishes to see the kids every 2 weeks, provided he has a job (money)”.
When my soon ex-husband-to-be Jude Seah, dropped his pride to ask for a roof in end-Sept 2011, I made things easy for him. I did his laundry, cleaned / tidied his room, cooked his meals, including prepared most of his breakfast.
When my 3-month-old-ex-husband-to-be Jude Seah, couldn't afford to settle an old starhub bill (which became due 5 years ago) but desperately 'need' a phone on 31Dec 2011(obviously a free phone by signing up 2-yr contract with Starhub), I pulled out a $50 for him to settle the problem.
When my 2-month-old-ex-husband-to-be Jude Seah, 'could not' pay me a token rent / food for Jan 2012 and the outstanding legal fee, I just waited patiently for his forever-fail promised-dates (hopes). You know, he had "to work" 'very hard' till midnight (kids were already asleep) and came home terribly hungry, looking for food. He even had “to work”, as demanded by his "event organiser-boss", on CNYeve, CNY 1st, 2nd & 3rd day. No reunion dinner. Kids did not get to see him despite they slept at 2am on the eve.
BUT he was almost all the time in those days mentioned above with a girl (27yo, Seah is 46yo) either at the wine outlet Katong which she works with or out eating / shopping with her.
- 13 Jan waited her at wine outlet Katong, ate at nearby Joo-joo Jap restuarant, shopping at Parkway Parade, spent $39 at Giant Parkway.
- 24 Jan (CNY 2nd day) to Arts Museum, jalanjalan ended at Marina Bay Sand
- 28 Jan along a highway ? french kissing / groping / ?
- 30 Jan Erdinger clark quay, meal & Weissbier. groping the girl.
- 30 Jan Made a video at ?, 'forcing' her to say "wo shi ni de lao po" (I'm your wife).
- 31 Jan made a video at the office of the wine outlet Katong.
- 6 Feb, waited for her at wine outlet Katong, then having fun together at ?
- 22 Feb to 26 Feb went to Hong Kong with the girl.
- 27 Feb to 28 Feb, where was he? staying at the girl's house?
- 29 Feb morning 12.15am, came back home with 2 cheapo phone 'chains' for kids, 1 big bag of laundry, describing & complaining his K.L. job a little, very tired & hungry that he ate the fried rice in the fridge without heating up.
According to the court order, he is supposed to start paying the family maintenance. But he acted / pretended very "cham", (whenever he does not have "spare" money) he would "siam us far far", not even go market or coffee shops with us so to avoid paying; throughout the pre- to post-CNY, did not bring kids out for food or fun (even I did proposed the "River Hongbao" which kids enjoyed in the last few rounds); he "could not afford" to buy new year clothes, had to "borrow" (he said) 2 mandarin oranges twice for his "event organizer-boss' & photography-boss. He further added that the 'event-boss' wife was very unhappy with him 'cos he didn't bring oranges on the CNY 1st day, so took 2 from me on the 2nd day; he is sure that the wife is biased against him (now thinking back, I have a strong feel that that the "wife" is actually the girl's mother).
BUT BUT BUT WAIT, on 21st March 2012, he booked 2 Cathay Pacific air tickets @ $480 each for himself and the girl (the receipts by Kingdom Travel bear both their names) off they went for 5-days spree in Hong Kong from 22Feb – 26Feb. (He lied to me and straight into the faces of my 2 kids that he would be away to Kuala Lumpur for an event job). (and as far as I could gather, this is his 3rd to HongKong with his lovers {different women} since 20th March 2007 (this day he flew with my $5k loan [still owing me today]] which he lied that needed desperately to settle for his special photography lights).
Given the INCONCEIVABLE chance that he could live with his kids again while our divorce proceedings is in process, he does not treasure it and now it is lost AGAIN – FOREVER.
Brothers / sisters, thank you for reading up to here.
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1605229723

By: CHC Insider

CHC Insider — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 16:32:05 +0000

Yes, she is definately “blacklisted”. Since she is not as famous as Jack, the lesser will be blacklisted as rocking the boat. I believe that Foyce is right and her beliefs in exposing Jack.

It is not advisable for her to stay in CHC, she will always be seen as the black sheep, condemmed.

It will be essential for her to move on to greener pastures.

Regards

By: Jerine

Jerine — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 11:35:36 +0000

@adam
Did the law say that a pastor cannot dress in Armani suit or that the wife of a pastor cannot wear any
clothes she like? Hmmm

Whatever the church does is always being criticized. Zzzzzz

By: Jerine

Jerine — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 11:29:05 +0000

@Just Kang

The church did contribute money, tents and sent medical teams to Haiti for disaster relief. Same for Sichuan’s earthquake. And how much is the pastors being paid has probably nothing to do with you :)

By: light

light — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 06:40:15 +0000

Does this have anything to do with religion? Why is the church being debated when 1 member did something wrong? Should the whole Singapore nation be condemned when 1 singaporean commit adultery?

Do the media have the right to judge? Actually all you who are so interested in ‘helping’ the victims should instead be praying to your God that the victims will be able to resolve and find peace.

I really do pray that all you who aren’t involved in this crisis will be able see the light in this whole situation and move on.

And to Sonia Suka, you must be someone that has no religion. Because, you don’t a thing about what u wrote. Christians giving to church isn’t called DONATING. Which verse used the word DONATE? It’s either tithing or giving. Now, i think you owe the public an apology for writing about something you know totally nothing about.

By: the truth

the truth — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 16:22:13 +0000

Hey! City harvest has a multi million equity stake in Suntec and has been registered as a charity all these while which has many benefits like tax exemption et cetera.
City Harvest is ISO certified and generates many revenue too.
Sun Ho generates many revenue as well, had to leave CHC or tongues will wag further.
Have you observed who are the followers of CHC? The age group and income group and other demographics?
Now we see pastors mediating for Jack Neo.
Mimicks Peter Russell, “What do you think”?
Well Foyce should have let it all out in 1 blast and get it over with. Reveal everything like Wendy. Now she is under “divine restraint”
Nothing will come out from the police report, just watch.

By: mice is nice

mice is nice — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 18:23:07 +0000

if Jack Neo wanted cheap thrills, dun he know where to get it?

want fresh meat go supermarket… :D

By: Pissed off

Pissed off — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 05:24:37 +0000

Let’s us not drag the church’s name onto the street becuase of members’ petty squabbles.Foyce is seeking cheap attention and kciking up dusts that might blind herself. Anyway i find her cheap to bring this up to add salt to the the wound. She and Jack could have sorted out long before this and not now.

By: dickhead

dickhead — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:27:49 +0000

well i think there is more trash between this foyce & our famous jackass. it is being swept under the carpet to protect the church creditability & its image.
just look at today news abt catholic priests who molest & abused 200 deaf kids in europe for 40 yrs & the vatican claims to not to know abt it.
religions do have its own politic, mind u

By: Desmond tutu

Desmond tutu — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:19:33 +0000

When the missionaries came to Africa, they have the bible and we have the land. They said to us “Let us pray”. When we opened our eyes, we have the bible and they have the land.
This is Christian missionaries ! Now we know why so many people want to be Pastor. The richest man on Earth is the Pope, not Bill Gates or Carlos Slim or Warren Buffet.
There is no doubt CHC is not a church but a self enriching entity using Jesus Christ to enrich themselves. Poor Jesus Christ.

By: kornhead

kornhead — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:15:47 +0000

Wealth, Power, Sex & Religions rules in this sinful world!

By: Bee Hong

Bee Hong — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 06:06:17 +0000

Sonia was not specualting, she had craftily and knowingly used Jack Neo’s incident to achieve her clear agenda in attacking Christians and their Churches.

By: blue

blue — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 04:17:31 +0000

Hi Sonia, please do not dragged the church through this mud. It is just speculations on your part.

By: andrew leung

andrew leung — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 23:39:02 +0000

I think she is angry that Jack denied making advances towards her, she is not sad. Singing a song or promoting her album is not really attention seeking, it’s part of her work.

By: Ben-o-all-question

Ben-o-all-question — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:36:47 +0000

According to my friend from a local media who has attended the so called press conference by the “Victim no 2″, she sang a song at the end of it and showed her new album. Is she so sad she needs to sing or ….. you be your own judge.
If Jack Neo is one of the biggest contributor to this church, then this is not a very rich church, I have never seen Jack Neo in any ranking in Forbes or Fortune. What do you think he is worth? USD10 Million, USD50 Million, USD100 Million? I don’t know, probably just a few million Singapore dollars, many in Singapore are worth more than him.

By: mice is nice

mice is nice — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 15:17:42 +0000

lack moral & is deceitful? sounds like Jack Neo….

how many people with a strong herd mentality under peer pressure & prolong indoctrination can distinguish between truth and lies meh?

By: buaya

buaya — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 14:42:24 +0000

Clarence Lee.,
Are you somehow related to ……how do you know and is so sure to say Sonia has set out to mislead the readers?Care to share?
If the pastor had indeed gave that advise to Foyce,I dun see anything wrong on the article.
Whether reader choose to belief Foyce or the pastor,its their choice.We should not discourage contributors from writing.They are matured to know the consequence.
I have reason to believe that the Pastor gave the wrong advice,becos my junior member ‘s attitude has change after spending too much time on their seow group.

By: Uniquely Spore

Uniquely Spore — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 13:50:17 +0000

Readers,
1. If the hubby commits adultery in singapore, do you think it is a crime ? I dunno. But do you?

2. If a private investigator report proves hubby commits Adultery, do you think singapore law penalise the adulterer? i dunno. But do you?

According to today’s newspaper , one lady wrote in and said , quote “During the divorce proceedings, I realised that even if one has a private investigator’s report proving adultery, Singapore law does not penalise the adulterer.”

What say you?

What say you, AWARE?

In this respect, if its true, I would feel very disappointed with AWARE for not fighting for women in this aspect.

Aware need to help women in this aspect. Why should the Adulterer expect the Woman to Endure, Accept or Forgive his adultery? By the same token, can the man accept the wife who sleeps around with men ? If this man gets an investigator and proves her adultery, does the Singapore law penalise the woman?

What standard should a so-called First world have in this aspect?

Lets hear from you, the 1st world citizens.

By: Clarence Lee

Clarence Lee — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 13:06:09 +0000

Despite the fact that Sonia had set out to misled readers with her highly erroneous and deceitful article, TOC had allowed such an article to be published without verifying its credibility and truthfulness. This speaks of the clear lack of moral and social responsibility on TOC’s part.
One cannot but also sighed at the kind of mob mentality of some posters here, who had lost their sense of logic, and the ability to distinguish between truth and lies.

By: Shocked

Shocked — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 10:37:12 +0000

I am suprised that Sonia can write such an article based on presumtions and suppositions ?

So what if Fiona and Jack belong to the same church ? Does it mean there must be a conspiracy then ?
I thought reporters need to have some level of integrity rather than trying to sensentionalise a article based on one’s own misguided decductions.
I can see the path of where Online citizen is going if more such writers such as Sonia is in its team……the road to sleazy unfounded taboild reporting.