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Disturbing trend of breast milk misuse in Indonesia and call for safer donations

A TikTok revelation has spotlighted an unsettling trend where adults, primarily men, are pursuing breast milk from mothers in Indonesia. The fetish phenomenon involves manipulating sympathy and deceiving lactating mothers.

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INDONESIA: Mother’s milk or breast milk serves as a vital source of nourishment for infants.

However, an alarming trend has emerged where breast milk is being sought after by adults, predominantly men.

A recent TikTok video shed light on this peculiar issue, detailing an encounter with an individual harboring a fetish for breast milk.

The fetish phenomenon encompasses a particular fixation on certain objects, body parts, or activities for sexual arousal.

The TikTok account under the username rntika.ag shared her experiences, along with those of other mothers who had encountered individuals with this fetish.

“This is becoming increasingly distressing – engaging in conversations with individuals fixated on lactating mothers and breast milk. Regrettably, I’m not the sole target; countless others are also affected. It’s imperative to caution all breastfeeding mothers,” she conveyed in a written statement accompanying an image.

The content, which garnered an impressive 457.1 thousand views after being posted on August 10th, includes screenshots displaying conversations between the offender and breastfeeding mothers.

The individual adeptly assumes the role of a concerned husband, seemingly seeking a breast milk donor due to his wife’s hospitalization.

Manipulating sympathy, he dupes one of the victims into supplying breast milk, oblivious to its misuse.

In one of the screenshots, he even masquerades as his own wife, asserting the need for breast milk as their child is purportedly not benefiting from breastfeeding.

Upon realizing the deception and growing suspicions, the victim promptly severs communication ties with the perpetrator.

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chat screenshot of the victim and the perpetrator (Photo: TikTok/rntika.ag)

Social media users flooded the comments section, offering diverse viewpoints.

Some recommend a safer route for donating breast milk – suggesting direct donations to orphanages.

“For mothers with surplus breast milk willing to donate, it’s advisable to directly contribute to orphanages or more secure avenues. This situation is deeply unsettling,” user r***** commented.

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Other users propose that potential donors should insist on verifying the requestor’s identity or engage in a video call prior to any donation.

“Sis, please disseminate this information among the breast milk donor community. My apologies to those unaware. In the future, requesters should be prompted to establish their identity or engage in a preliminary video call,” urged user f****.

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Response from the Indonesian Breastfeeding Mothers Association (AIMI)

In response to the viral incident involving the ASI fetish, reported from detik, the Indonesian Breastfeeding Mothers Association (AIMI) has issued a statement.

AIMI emphasizes the importance of cautious selection when it comes to breast milk donors.

“Selecting breast milk donors should not be a random process; stringent screening is essential. Thorough examination of breast milk is also imperative. Donations should be conducted under regulated circumstances rather than between individuals,” affirmed AIMI Chairman Nia Umar.

Nia highlights that this incident underscores the urgency of instituting regulations pertaining to breastfeeding donors within the community.

In contrast to many other nations, Indonesia currently lacks an ASI bank (breast milk bank), and most donations occur on an individual basis.

Nia further recommends that mothers interested in donating breast milk should do so through hospital channels.

Several major Indonesian cities have established hospitals that accept breast milk donations, particularly for premature infants.

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Elderly men eating leftovers at People’s Park Food Centre spark concerns over rising living costs

A recent report revealed that elderly men have been seen eating leftovers at People’s Park Food Centre, raising concerns about their potential struggles amid rising living costs in Singapore. Online community are urging relevant agencies to reach out and understand their situations.

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Singapore: A group of elderly men has reportedly been eating leftovers at in People’s Park Food Centre, as reported by Shin Min Daily News on Wednesday (18 September).

According to tips from readers, these elderly men have been spotted scavenging for food at the bustling food centre in Chinatown.

Witnesses noted that they not only take unfinished meals from tables but also search the dish return area for additional leftovers.

Several hawkers reported seeing multiple elderly individuals, including one specific man, frequently visiting the food centre to collect leftovers, although they were unaware of their identities and living situations.

A Chinese food hawker, who has worked there for over ten years, noted that at least three or four scavengers come daily, usually around 8 or 9 PM, and sometimes kind customers buy food for them.

Another stall assistant, Ms Ma, observed that diners often leave their tables, allowing the older man to sit down and eat the leftovers directly.

Cleaner Mr Quan mentioned that while he has seen the man taking food left by others, he has also witnessed him buying his own meals, suggesting he is not in dire financial need.

Additionally, Quan noted that these scavengers typically arrive around 10 AM and leave in the afternoon.

One Elderly Man Interviewed Attributes Leftover Eating Habit to Waste Prevention, Not Financial Struggles

Among the scavengers is Mr Wang, an 84-year-old resident of Bedok, who emphasised that he doesn’t want to waste food.

He told reporter, “I have a home and children, but it’s very lively here, so I come every day and go home in the evening.”

He acknowledged his habit of eating leftovers, stating, “It’s not because I lack money; I simply don’t want to waste food.”

He explained, “Some people order a lot and can’t finish it; sometimes a whole fish is left uneaten. ”

“When I see large plates of leftover food, I think it’s a waste, so I take it to eat, and it’s still warm,” he said, adding that other scavengers respect each other’s space and enjoy their own finds.

Not everyone supports the practice of scavenging for leftovers. Daniel Tay, a retired financial advisor and advocate for freeganism, expressed concerns about the potential dangers of consuming discarded food.

He pointed out that it’s often unclear how long the food has been left out or if it has been contaminated by animals or pests, which could lead to food poisoning.

“It’s extremely unhygienic. Diners might throw away food or toss used napkins into it, contaminating it further. If a diner gets sick, such as with the flu or COVID-19, they could pass the virus to someone eating the leftovers,” he warned.

Tay suggested a more proactive approach, encouraging people to ask diners if they can take home any uneaten food, which would help ensure the food is clean and raise awareness about food waste.

Netizens Urge Agencies to Address Challenges Faced by Elderly Amid Rising Living Costs

Comments on Shin Min’s Facebook page reveal that many netizens suspect the elderly men scavenging for food may be facing significant challenges and are urging relevant agencies to reach out to understand their situations.

Some are questioning whether the rising cost of living in Singapore is prompting individuals to resort to drastic measures to save money.

One netizen commented, “Every family has its own difficulties; who hasn’t faced storms and hardships? If you see an elderly person, please invite him to a meal. After all, we will all grow old one day. Whether it’s a blessing or a curse, only heaven and earth know. I believe that Singaporeans who see him will definitely invite him to a meal.”

Discussion on Singapore’s Hardwarezone forum also highlighted that many have witnessed similar situations, indicating that this issue is not new.

One netizen speculated that some elderly individuals might be facing mental health challenges. The user shared observation of an elderly woman in Little India who regularly collects cardboard and sells 4D lottery tickets. Despite receiving money from passersby, she continues her activities.

Another user recounted an experience of seeing an elderly woman eating directly from leftover plates and offered to buy her a plate of duck rice.

However, the hawker advised that it would be pointless, as the woman allegedly prefers eating leftovers to fresh food. The netizen expressed pity for her situation, noting that other customers had also tried to buy her a meal.

Not the First Time Elderly Individuals Spotted Scavenging for Leftovers at People’s Park Food Centre

This is not the first time elderly individuals have been spotted eating leftover food at People’s Park Food Centre.

In November 2022, 8World News reported that at least seven elderly people allegedly engage in such practice regularly at the hawker centre. These individuals typically search for unfinished food left on tables or at the tray return area.

At that time, in response to inquiries from 8World News, the Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF) stated that they were collaborating with grassroots volunteers and hawkers to identify these elderly individuals and provide assistance if needed.

MSF encourages the public to report any elderly individuals in need of help by calling 1800-222-0000 or connecting them with local social service agencies through the OneService App.

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Fire at train depot causes second Circle Line disruption in two days

Circle Line services in Singapore were disrupted for the second time in two days after a fire broke out at Kim Chuan Depot on 18 September. The fire, which caused a power trip, was extinguished quickly, with normal services resuming shortly after.

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SINGAPORE: A fire at the Kim Chuan Depot on Wednesday (18 September) caused a brief disruption to Circle Line services, marking the second consecutive day of interruptions on the line.

The fire, which broke out around 8pm in one of the power system cubicles, resulted in a power trip that halted train services for approximately 15 minutes.

A netizen posted in the Facebook group Complaint Singapore, reporting the latest disruption.

According to SMRT, the transport operator, the incident caused several trains to stall, and lighting within the affected trains was briefly impacted.

Engineers at the depot quickly extinguished the fire, and the Singapore Civil Defence Force was activated to assist.

Power was restored by 8.10pm, and normal train services resumed five minutes later at around 8.15pm.

“We appreciate all commuters’ patience and apologise for the longer commutes over the past two evenings,” SMRT said in a statement posted on Facebook, explaining the swift restoration of services after the fire was contained.

In response to the incident on SMRT’s Facebook page, some commuters expressed frustration, noting that the disruptions were happening just before a planned fare increase.

Others raised concerns about the reliability and safety of train services.

Several also criticised SMRT for poor communication during the disruptions, highlighting issues with announcements and equipment at certain stations.

They urged the operator to make improvements before the fare hike takes effect.

The incident followed a major disruption the previous day, when a power fault at 5.50pm on 17 September halted Circle Line services for nearly two hours during the evening peak period.

Eleven trains were stalled inside tunnels for 15 minutes, leaving passengers without air-conditioning.

However, onboard batteries provided partial lighting and ventilation during the outage.

SMRT gradually resumed services, with normal operations restored by 7.40pm.

In a statement on Wednesday morning, SMRT said that staff worked through the night to diagnose the cause of Tuesday’s fault and ensure that all systems were fully operational.

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